Making a woman think of you is as simple as being someone worth missing. You don’t need to look for mind games or psychological manipulations.
Think about the time you got lost in thoughts fantasizing about someone. What put you in that state? Which particular moments stood out in your thoughts about that person?
Understanding what makes you crave someone will give you a better feel for what it takes to make a woman think of you. It’s that simple. Without further ado, here are five things you can start doing today to make a woman think of.
If you want to make a woman miss you, you must first build an emotional connection with her. And one of the best ways to do this is to show that you care by being an attentive guy.
If you’ve been with a woman who cared about you, you’ll know how attentive to detail women can be.
She will quickly notice a spot on your face, a change in the sound of your voice, a change in how you smell, etc. This is why women love men who are attentive too.
Pay close attention to her when you’re together or having a conversation. Being attentive will get you beyond surface-level questions and help you bond with her on a deeper level.
Why is this important?
Here’s the thing: Men and women think differently in many ways. Most of the time, a woman will miss you because of the little things.
For instance, after a date, she might think about how you picked out a piece of tiny dirt from her hair or how well you both bonded during your conversation. Those tiny details are the things she will think about when she’s missing you.
From an evolutionary perspective, a woman is less likely to survive with a needy man.
Think about it.
If she gets pregnant by a needy man, it means she will have to take care of the baby and the man. This means less protection for her and less chance of survival for her family. It’s all bad news.
So if you want to be in the position where a woman finds you important enough to obsess over you, you need to craft your reputation like an artist. A woman is more likely to think of you if you present yourself as high-value.
A high-value man knows himself, he isn’t needy, or overly concerned with pleasing people. He has himself together and understands his value. Most importantly, a high-value man is on his purpose and spends time doing meaningful things.
He has boundaries, knows what he deserves, and what to expect in a healthy relationship.
Being a man like this will get you respect and admiration from women. And it means that you’ll also get to give her space to think of you when you’re apart.
Don’t call her three days after a first date. This isn’t what space or mystery means.
However, you don’t want to suffocate someone you want to miss. If you do, she’ll be too busy getting rid of you she won’t have time to miss you.
After you’ve formed a good rapport with her, bonded with her, and established a good reputation, be mindful of how much time you spend with her.
If you want a woman to miss you, focus on having quality time together, not excess time. When you get together on weekends, give her all your love and attention. Focus on her and make the time memorable.
This way, you can build a bond and light up a fire that will burn when she’s alone and thinking about you. Remember, desire needs space. No seduction can be complete without it.
We think about people that make us feel special.
Think about it. If you had a teacher that believed in you in high school, who always complimented your brilliance and told you how much he believed in you, chances are, you’ll think of that teacher a lot (just not in a romantic way).
You’ll think about what he said when you’re reading, when you’re feeling unmotivated, you’ll use his words to nurture yourself back to life. This is the power of honest compliments.
The best compliments you can give a girl–especially if she’s beautiful–are not physical compliments. Why?
Well, if you’re going out with a beautiful girl, chances are, she has already heard the “You look pretty” compliments over and over.
Although there’s nothing wrong with telling her she’s beautiful, however, you are more likely to stand out and get her to think of you if you tell something different.
For instance, pay her a compliment about her vibe. Tell her you love her energy and how down-to-earth she is. If she seems smart and knowledgeable, tell her, she’ll really love it.
By paying her these sincere and different compliments, she’ll find herself thinking of the sweet things you said about her when she’s alone. Why? It’s not a compliment she gets all the time. That’s the trick.
We’ve talked about the Dopamine-seeking reward loop in many of our articles. And it basically explains that people link exciting experiences to those they experienced them with.
Hence, one of the best ways to get someone to miss you is to share exciting and fun experiences together. And this is because we like to think about fun times.
When she’s alone, she’ll think of how exciting it was to be on a roller coaster with you, or how much fun you had at the movies last night.
Try going to a place you’ve never been to together. Learn something new together. If she’s never been to a comedy show before and you guys go together, she’s definitely going to remember it.
When you experience exciting new things with someone, you bond with them on a deep psychological level. They won’t just think of you, they’ll also miss you because of those experiences.
It’s natural for a woman to miss you if she already loves and enjoys spending time with you. However, if she’s pulling away or is less invested in your relationship, then take a step back and think about what might be wrong.
Compare your findings to the ideas in this list and change what needs adjustment. Like many important things, making relationships work doesn’t come easy. It requires deliberate planning, strategizing, and diligent work.